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How God intended Mariage to be. part2
February 2, 2009, 2:12 am
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Always agree that devoice is not the answer no matter what the case, God is with you pray to him he will lift you up. Mat 19:9  “But I say to you*, whoever divorces his wife not for sexual sin and marries another commits adultery, and the one having married the one having been divorced commits adultery.”  Rom 7:2 For example, by law a married woman is bound to her husband as long as he is alive, but if her husband dies, she is released from the law of marriage.

Keeping the family circle tightly closed. Personal intimate things should not leave your house, only if you are seeking professional counseling for a particular issue. Pro 31:11-12   Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value. 12 She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life.

Love according to God, we must work on it everyday to measure up. This scripture is Gods plan for us to love. Read 1Co 13:4-8 all about love. 1Co 13:4-7   Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

I want you all to know that name-calling and unwarranted criticism is not love. Neither of you are perfect. Don’t you think God knows this? Also don’t hold any resentment, bitterness toward one another. Remember that you cannot change anyone; only God can change a person’s heart. No matter how we try.  Let us be kind at heart maybe a sense of humor too, enjoy each other’s company. Corinthians says to be patient and do everything in love. Keep love on your tongue when you feel nagging coming on. Lets decide to speak softly and kindly to our spouses. But don’t overdo it by giving in too much or becoming a doormat, then again not enough. Col 3:19 Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them. Pro 21:19 Better to live in a desert than with a quarrelsome and ill-tempered wife. Mat 7:13-14  “Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. 14 But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it.

Lets talk about privacy. We all have some things that we call our own, not ours, mine. We all need to let the other have that privacy. This is not about hiding things from your spouse I m talking about maybe his garage tools, her sewing basket, how about your wallets. Be honest with each other have a trusting relationship, not having to checkup on one another is such a relief. 1Co 13:4-7   Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

Cleanliness is next to Godliness. I don’t know who said this but it runs deep for us. Your bodies are temples for God to dwell. Do you think he wants us not to take care of his temple? So we need to keep it clean and maintained. Scriptures speak of slofflessness’ being of the devil and we want nothing to do with him. Lets bring praise and glory to God with a well-presented temple and a great love for him. 1Ti 2:9 I also want women to dress modestly, with decency and propriety, not with braided hair or gold or pearls or expensive clothes, Pro 31:27 She watches over the affairs of her household
and does not eat the bread of idleness.
1Co 14:40 But everything should be done in a fitting and orderly way. 1Ti 5:8 If anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for his immediate family, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever. Heb 6:12 We do not want you to become lazy, but to imitate those who through faith and patience inherit what has been promised.

As for income this is where mine/ yours stops. All income should be ours, besides its Gods money. Our only responsibility is to know how much of Gods money we need to live modestly. Both are equal in the spending area but guild lines should be in place not to over spend. We are to be good Stewarts of God’s money and should never forget that.

One thing we can do to strengthen our relationships is to talk freely to one another. This is like counseling together. What ever the topic just be open minded, patient,  and above all a good listener. Remember to always encourage each other; this will bring a higher level of confidence for them. This is good for both of you. We are all made with different personalities if remember to do everything in love, pretend Jesus is standing right next to you. WWJD is a great slogan you can live by it. Earnestly pray over your house for protection for the evil things of this world. Pro 15:32 He who ignores discipline despises himself, but whoever heeds correction gains understanding. Pro 26:12 Do you see a man wise in his own eyes? There is more hope for a fool than for him.

Study notes taken from Amazing Facts Study Guide.

 

 

 

 

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